Marriages are made in heaven, but finding happiness and satisfaction in the relationship depends much on your own approach and attitude. We endeavor to provide you with tips that help you enjoy a heavenly marriage in this earthly world.
Here we elucidate the characteristics of a heavenly marriage to help strengthen the bond and establish a relationship which is built on love and trust and that lasts forever.
Give Your 100 Percent
Recall the valuable words of Lord Jesus, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” True love is giving without expecting anything in return. When two souls give their 100 percent to build a relationship, there are lesser chances of disputes.
Honor & Respect your Spouse
As per the words of God – Nothing should be done through selfish ambition or conceit. You need to value your spouse as much as your own self. Appreciate your partner even for the small gestures, success, and achievements.
Keeping in mind the saying, “Don’t sweat the small stuff”, appreciate the positive attributes that you observe in your life partner. Moreover, don’t forget to be humble and say “sorry”, when you go wrong. Saying sorry in time helps avoid conflicts from escalating and go a long way in healing and restoring your relationship.
Set a Positive Example
You cannot change a person against his or her will, but you can change yourself. You have certain responsibilities towards your marriage and your partner. Set a positive example by fulfilling them. It’s quite possible that you may miss out on certain fronts as you are human. However, your approach towards fulfilling your responsibilities should be sincere and genuine. Have the courage to accept your follies too.
Be aware that the Almighty keeps an eye on your every conduct, so be sure to fulfill your own responsibility instead of raising a question on your partner’s conduct every now and then.
Communicate in Love
Every couple should find time to talk to each other every day in spite of all the pressures of the fast-paced, technology-driven modern life. According to Zunin, your language, attitude, or expression at the beginning of the day can affect your relationship throughout the day. Positive communication through deeds, words or gestures, helps you avoid arguments or unnecessary grudges that may last all day long. Moreover, at the end of the day, even if you are tired, appreciate your partner with an expression of love and acceptance. This will, for sure, bring sweetness in your relationship.
Learn from Each Other
Learn to understand your spouse instead of expecting him/her to change according to your wishes because God has created each one uniquely; accept the fact that each one is different. Discover, grow and learn together throughout your life, as this helps you understand each other better.
These are small things that can make a significant difference to your relationship. So, don’t just read, act! It doesn’t cost anything but uplifts everything towards a more positive level and work wonders in your married life. These are the few essentials to invest into pursuing a happy relationship and reap dividends in marital bliss and satisfaction.
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